What Women Really Like In A Man: 45 Dating Tips On How To Capture A Girl's Heart, Make Her Fall In Love With You (For Good) and Never Want To Leave You (Dating Advice For Men) by Stella Belmar

Author:Stella Belmar [Belmar, Stella]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
Publisher: StellaSingles.com
Published: 2014-01-06T00:00:00+00:00

17. Create Magic

Life is not easy for anyone. Responsibilities, stress, financial burdens, family obligations – you name it – tend to creep up in our daily lives and we forget to create magic.

It’s important to remember that there is something amazing about every day you live. Be grateful for what you have and who you meet. Try to see the good in every situation and every person.

When it comes down to dating and impressing women, if you know how to create magic moments, you will instantly enhance the chemistry and connection between the two of you. I define magic as saying or doing things that are out of the ordinary. They don’t need to be over-the-top type of gestures. Instead, what I’m talking about are emotional moments that create unforgettable memories.

This kind of behavior requires a little bit of spontaneity and a little bit of risk-taking, but the rewards are exponential. When you create magical moments, you energize everything in the body and the brain of both people. It’s like a serotonin high. This is what bonds and connects two people. You would be surprised how easy it is to do and how powerful it is.

Let me give you some examples:

Let’s say you had a first date and you think you enjoyed each other. Instead of doing the same old thing of going for drinks after the dinner you just had, you take your girl for a walk on the beach. Both of you are completely in awe of the waves splashing on the sand, the moon reflecting in the water and the smell and the sound of sea water. This is magic. You don’t even need to talk. You can just embrace each other or admire the scenery in silence. Hold her hand and don’t say anything. Or give her a very gentle kiss and then keep walking. Or you could be silly and splash and run through the waves (if the water is warm enough). The options are endless and these moments will be unforgettable for both of you.

Instead of creating a classic date, take her on a tour of something new and interesting. You can give her a tour of a winery you like. Show her a new hole-in-the-wall restaurant. Take a drive through a some beautiful scenery or tour a special neighborhood. Show her a historical landmark and tell her some background on it on the way to or from your date. Stop the car and grab her hand and look her in the eyes. Be romantic. Exchange that special energy that is created between two human beings. It’s much more powerful than anything you would say or do. It’s something you don’t see, but you definitely feel it. Don’t make it sexual, make it romantic and gentle.

Create a surprise moment if you know what kind of music she likes. Get that CD and play it in your car while you’re driving to the date. As you talk about it, look deeply into her eyes. Try to find that connection.

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